10 definite signs he’s into you

by Lynn
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Most men have this way of dropping subtle signs he’s into you. Sometimes it can be hard to tell if a guy is just nice or he’s flirting. It can be very confusing if you can’t tell the difference. But if he indeed likes you he’ll show you.

Here are the signs to watch out for:

Eye contact

There’s 2 types of eye contact, there’s the basic eye contact where someone acknowledges your presence but there’s the prolonged eye contact that shows he likes you and is interested. If he also maintains eye contact with you for a longer period this is one of the telltale signs he’s into you.

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He touches you

If he subconsciously touches you when you’re talking by putting his hand on yours or on your shoulder sometimes it may be a stroke on your knee and even in some instances he may lean in and touch your arm when talking. If he seems to be looking for reasons to touch you this could be one of the clear signs he’s into you.

Body language

If a guy is into you, trust me it’s written all over him. He’ll try as much as possible to maintain eye contact with you, he’ll find excuses to touch you and he’ll lean in when you’re having a conversation. He will also smile a lot when you’re with him. If you get butterflies when you’re around him and you feel a certain typa way every time you get together. At times he may stand closer to you than usual when you’re having a conversation. These are clear signs he’s into you.

He reaches out

If he’s into you, he will call or text you first. He will never make you question yourself if you should call or text him first, if he really likes you he will reach out. Men are known to go after what they want. If you’re questioning yourself it may be probably best you go on with your life. If he keeps checking up on you and tries to ensure that the conversations between you are continuous he’s definitely into you.

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Makes plans

If a guy is interested in you he’ll make plans special plans just for the two of you. He will not casually invite you to hang out with his friends. If he intentionally plans to spend time with you this could be a sign that he’s into you. It could be something simple like dinner, lunch, breakfast or even drinks after work.

Remembers details

If he remembers the little details about you, whether it’s your pets name or a story you told him this could be a clear indication that he’s into you. It shows that he pays attention to you and he’s very interested in your conversations and he takes you seriously.


Guys do not give up easily. If he’s interested in you he will pursue you consistently until you give him a clear indication that you are not interested in him. He will continuously ask you to meet up, he will constantly check up on you. If he’s persistent he’s into you

 Friends and family

A guy who’s into you will want you to meet his friends and family. He will not live his life separately, he will want you to be a part of his life. He will let you in on his favorite places, people, extra-curricular activities.  If he introduces you to his friends and family this may be one of the signs he’s into you.

Tells you how he feels about you

A guy who is into you will make sure you know exactly how he feels about you from the get go. He will constantly tell you what he likes about you in subtle ways. He can say he likes your personality, he tells you how beautiful you look. These are all clear signs that he’s into you.

He opens up to you

If he opens up to you and tells you personal details about his life this are signs he’s into you. If he talks to you about his ambitions, his dreams he’s probably into you.

When he really likes you, you can tell. Even the people around you can tell he’s into you. If you have to keep wondering or overanalyzing every interaction you have with him, he’s just not that into you.

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